What the Cats of Essaouira taught me about Motherhood

from left to right: Cleo with Ramses, Daisy, and Sophia with Sufia

A town hugging the Atlantic along Morocco’s coast, filled with unpretentious locals, raucous seagulls, the call to prayer echoing through megaphones five times a day, and the warm, grounding scent of cumin—Essaouira. In the first half of 2026, I spent over two months here, continually captivated by its easy rhythm. Was it the unassuming warmth of the people? The rhythmic crash of the waves evening after evening? Or the scent of slow-cooked tagine, couscous, and fresh mint tea drifting through the blue-and-white labyrinth of the Medina? I still can’t quite say.

Anyone who has traveled through the Mediterranean and North Africa knows it is paradise for cat lovers. From Istanbul and Amman to the Greek isles and Moroccan medinas, community cats are woven into the social fabric, fed and sheltered by locals. I was never a cat person. I have always loved animals, but my heart belonged to dogs—even cows—without any particular affinity for felines. That changed quickly in Essaouira. At first, I simply fed and petted the street cats without getting attached. But as the weeks unfolded, a deeper connection took hold.

When you settle into a place for a couple of months, routines take shape. You get to know your vegetable vendor, the butcher, your go-to café, and the quiet characters who share your daily walk. That was how I met Cleo, Sophia, and Daisy – three neighborhood cats who quickly became part of my world. Cleo lived at my local gym. Sophia made her home at a restaurant down the street. Daisy ruled the alleyway along my morning commute. Three very different souls who, unexpectedly, taught me a great deal about maternal instincts, survival, and independence.

Cleo—short for Cleopatra—was a patient, gray-and-black tabby who owned the gym floor. She let me pet her, pick her up, and occasionally even hold her as a warm-up weight during squats. A few days after we met, I discovered her secret: tucked into a cardboard box behind the front desk was a tiny kitten, whom I named Ramses. Cleo was an extraordinarily attentive mother. Every couple of hours, she dutifully returned to the box to nurse and wash him. As Ramses grew bolder and began venturing out among the barbells and treadmills, Cleo never lost sight of him. She trusted the regulars, allowing him to weave between our feet, but the moment he drifted toward the open street door, she would dart out and herd him back inside. Her usual gentleness wasn’t weakness, either; when a territorial tomcat wandered in one afternoon and tried to corner them, Cleo instantly bristled, hissed, and drove him out into the alley to keep Ramses safe. She was calm by nature, but fierce the moment her baby was threatened.

Around the same time, Sophia entered my life as well. Stopping by a neighborhood eatery for lunch, I noticed a scrawny kitten perched on a dining chair. Curious and bold, she hopped into my lap, purring and meowing insistently. Guessing she was underfed, I ran to a corner shop for wet kitten food, which she devoured in seconds. When I returned two nights later, I found her curled tightly against an older female cat, her mother. I sat with both of them, sharing another meal until they felt safe enough to let me play with them. I named them Sophia and Sufia.

It soon became apparent that Sophia had run out of milk, meaning both mother and daughter depended entirely on scraps and kindness to survive. I started visiting them daily. If they were hungry, they would vocalize the moment they spotted me, meowing loudly. Once fed, they would soften, leaning into my hands just looking for comfort. Even without milk to give, Sophia offered fierce, tender presence. Every night, they slept wrapped around each other. Every morning before Sophia left to forage, she carefully tucked Sufia into a quiet corner out of harm’s way, doing everything she could with what little she had.

And then there was Daisy. I ran into Daisy on the sunlit sidewalks on my way to the gym. The first time I reached out a hand, she flopped onto her back and demanded belly rubs, behaving more like a golden retriever than a street cat. If I tried to walk away, she would fix me with an earnest, wide-eyed stare until I crouched back down, prompting her to come trotting right back. Daisy lived entirely on her own terms. She didn’t seek belonging or maternal duty; she was adventurous, carefree, and content in her own company, accepting affection whenever it suited her and roaming freely when it didn’t.

Three cats, three entirely different lives. One, a watchful and protective mother raising her kitten in safety; another, an under-resourced mother offering fierce devotion in the face of scarcity; and a third, an unbothered explorer who felt no need to conform to expectations. In a world where humans are constantly chasing validation, external labels, and predetermined milestones, these three simply lived – authentic, adaptive, and fully whole.

Apoorva

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